My daughter sent me this and it is all of the truths.
People ask me why I “spoil” my daughter by not making her pay half of everything and it frustrates me so much.
1. She took on her entire college education, and has never asked for my help. She is down to owing $30k.
2. When I wanted to get her a new car, she instead only let me pay the down payment and makes that payment every month.
3. Being a recent graduate with no experience she gets paid a VERY low salary for the job she works her ass off at, and every SINGLE TIME she gets a raise she takes on another bill.
4. She does all of this while battling bipolar, anxiety, and ADHD, and fucking rocks at it.
Why do people think putting your kids through more stress than they need is the best way to “help them grow up”????
I love my beautiful hard working mess of a millennial, and if I want to fucking “spoil” her it’s my choice, because I can!